I know it is hard sometimes but you you just have to ignore what you call reality! I love the following quote!
“You have sole ownership of your vision. And the Universe will give you what you want within your vision. What happens with most people is that they muddy their vision with “reality.” Their vision becomes full of not only what they want but what everybody else thinks about what they want, too. Your work is to clarify and purify your vision so that the vibration that you are offering can then be answered.” – Abraham Hicks
Peace, Love & Happiness,